Nurturing Intimacy

 

Last night I had my monthly goddesses' collage-making event. 12 of us gathered in my cottage by a roaring fire to share art, talk, poetry, healing and yummies. The topic was intimacy, what is it? how do you create it? how to you deepen it? It was a magical evening! Above is my collage... it is interesting for me to see my conscious and unconscious at play with this topic. Below are some new beliefs I am playing with as a result:

Creator's definition of intimacy is my definition of intimacy~ it is ever expansive, infinite, intrinsic and available to me in every moment!

My DNA downloads the vibration of true intimacy!

Every cell of my body is alive and active and seeking to share tenderness!

My energetic being is attuned to seek familiarity with others!

I habitually beam understanding and kindness to those who surround me. 

It is safe to open my heart, feel deep emotions and allow them to take me over.

Deep emotions are wise, safe and fun!

Emotions are beautiful, luminous gifts!

I can feel a tidal wave of emotions and still be safe, grounded and fully accepted!

It is fun to surrender completely and know that all is well!

I take time every day to nurture myself and do things which make me feel loved!

I find reasons to appreciate myself and dwell on them frequently.

I anticipate full acceptance and love from everyone around me.

In every moment I speak with radical honesty!

I love initiating physical contact to open my heart's flow. 

I habitually touch those around me in a way which shares respect, love and appreciation.

I nurture authentic communication with my family and regularly initiate opportunities for heart-felt talks.

I seek and create gatherings for women which strengthen and inspire us all!

I speak to at least five friends a day by phone or in person as a deliberate way of creating warm emotions in my heart.

I use my imagination to soften my energy field, become more radiant and accepting.

I look for things which I share in common with others and allow that to create feelings of commonality.

I regularly reach out to those whom I most admire! 

I actively initiate new friendships with the most inspiring people I know.

I appreciate what makes others unique from myself and am inspired by our differences.

I delight in giving myself utterly and completely to my partner! I hold nothing back!

I find my soft spot and soften it even more!

Comments

[John Tyler]

Every one those affirmations is so true. Thetahealing principles features simplicity, humor and intimacy healing effects.