This full moon, lunar eclipse, Winter Solstice is the perfect time to envision the future we want to create! It is a time to release what is no longer serving and step into a higher vision of intention. Here is my commitment...
I attract people into my life and deepen relationships with those who are over-the-moon excited to co-create connection! I focus on investing in those who love receiving what I have to give and who express it freely and with enthusiasm. These inspiring people excite me just from being who they are and doing what they do in the world... and I uplift them in the same way. We effortlessly give and recieve together because this investment helps us both feel more alive.
I allow myself to lovingly withdraw from those who do not express care or go out of their way to organize around me. I take responsibility for times when I exhibited over-giving, even when normal people would have walked away. I do the inner work needed to become curious about my part in training some people to believe that bad behavior is ok.
I take a stand for love and my own tremendous value by setting boundaries. I keep my first attention on me so I am grounded in my own center. I take a stand for absolute mutuality, and accept my need to be cherished and nurtured as sacred.
I love myself by setting 3 limits which I will not tolerate in close friends/loves. I avoid people who exhibit:
1. ambivalence about being with me in any way
2. unavailability (emotional, physical, etc)
3. substance reliance, anger management issues, persistent negativity or disrespect
I cultivate diamond clarity by setting 3 requirements for close friends or loves whom I invest more of my energy into. These are people who are:
1. committed to passionately living a life that improves the whole of humanity
2. loving, tender and affectionate
3. developed, with ability and interest in communicating, learning, and evolving
I play the most with those who share my values! These core values include: connection, positivity, contributing to others, playfulness, sensuality, freedom, excitement, adventure, physicality, clear communication, relaxation, health, inner peace, self care, and wellbeing.
I magnetize Beloveds to me in quantum numbers who want to be my evolutionary playmates!
Thank you for this lazer-like clarity! It is done!